[DISCUSSION] TCP Sexuality Thread

[skinstealer]

oooh good thoughts. let me break down my further observations here

wolf/dog types involving pack dynamics would be interesting, especially considering stuff like "alpha dog/wolf" is very outdated and wouldn't be applicable- people would have to determine their own dynamics outside of that dichtomy, and that could be neat to mess with even outside of a power dynamic standpoint. what kind of roles does a person take to make the pack functional? does someone handle cooking, cleaning, etc? does someone help keep monetary stuff in order? all of these things can also lead to what's called "service" in BDSM circles if people want to involve that in the relationship- i've read some really good stuff about this in relation to disability in a book titled "kneeling in spirit", which i highly recommend if you're cool with reading about graphic sex/kink stuff and want to know how a lot of older people in the community handle long term/lifestyle relationships. it's also like five bucks as an ebook. it's good.

cat types and somno stuff...interesting, i do like it. somno is something you have to be really careful with because it can lean into dubious consent if you're not careful and have established terms and conditions for it, as well as failsafes- but i am interested in how it can be explored, and i think the examples you've given are pretty safe. being cuddled or pampered while sleeping is a really good exploration of that, and leans in well to the cat-ness on display. still, it'd be good for those characters to negotiate it pretty heavily in advance- trusting someone with your safety and wellbeing while you sleep is a very big deal.

battle types would definitely benefit from a rival-like stance, though i imagine some that are less leaning into tropes for their typing would want someone who can comfort them when they cool down from those periods of being riled up and fighty. it would be just as common for someone to want a more medic-like feel, even leaning into medical play at times. i think there's a lot of potential here.

tooth types are pretty straightforward in what would be enjoyed there, yeah- but i imagine there could also be an angle of dental care? being serviced through cleaning is a pretty standout BDSM kink and i think TCPs with oral fixations would have it pretty rough outside of seeking partners like this that have mouths- seeing as most don't. i can imagine some being drawn to it though, or even having phantom sensations...something to bond over with a tooth or similar type TCP, i guess. these partners likely have very big opinions on toothpaste and types of bristle.

possession types are fun and tap into a lot about what i like about mental fuckery. like you said though, it'd require a lot of pre-negotiated and active consent, because that's a lot of trust involved. i could honestly see a possession type and their partner(s) getting advice from plural systems that have active relationship dynamics or otherwise, seeing as losing front can often be a similarly jarring situation. it would be cool to see possession types write about these kinds of things, i think.

blanket types being kneaded is soooo cute, i love it. it would be very nice for them, and you could vary how much sensation it gives them based on whether it's solely on the blanket covering, or goes deep enough to reach the main body underneath. blanket types can still feel sensation on the blankets themselves, but i imagine the body underneath the surface is much more sensitive and intimate to the touch, considering it's covered up most of the time. especially provocative blanket types likely style their blankets to reveal more of that body underneath, whether it's the blanket being lifted up in some way, cut short, or cut holes into it. i imagine those who do that likely have patches and detachable addons, though- for modesty when needed. maybe some zippers? interesting.

slime and other permeable types can definitely hold their partners within their bodies, including stuff like ocean types etc. it does take a significant amount of pressure and to some degree consent to allow this to happen, and i can imagine due to risk of waterlogging it's a pretty trust-heavy and extreme kink to engage with. still, some TCPs that enjoy immobilization or being surrounded in things, such as soft vore or encasement, would be pretty happy with this.

twinkle/fairy light type bondage would be SO UNCOMFORTABLE for most TCPs but some people are very into that. TCPs with thick or malleable surfaces would do best with that, to avoid piercing or other injury. it would definitely have a lot of flair though, especially if the light type in question turns the lights on (which i imagine they can do at will). makes you wonder if this stuff is sold in stores for this purpose- lights that never go out.

yeah no nature type gifts are a big deal, especially if customized in some way. thinking about those trees grown to fit molds, or something. it'd be a lot safer to do that to a purposefully-crafted nature type product than a "normal" plant, i imagine, seeing as...i don't know how to explain it, but it wouldn't endanger the health of the plant too much. another interesting TCP type product?

hydra type kisses are important. i think hydra types are also very interesting due to their inherent multiplicity/plurality- it'd make navigating relationships interesting, especially with the fact that all of the heads are technically cofronting whenever theyre awake. that said- i feel like heads can sleep at different times.

i am really glad crow's foot is getting some love here! it's a really underappreciated type. i think that celebrating wrinkles as an attractive thing would be super awesome to see, perhaps even a lover trusting the crow's foot type to give them some as a mark of commitment. TCPs with wrinkles like that would be super rare, so it'd be a very noticeable mark of trust and devotion.

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