10-05-2022, 01:52 AM
That's bullshit. sorry, but what the fuck kinda mobius strip logic is that? the narritive will do what it wants, we also do what we want. sure the narrative puts us in a place, but as far as I know, it doesn't mind control us. I saw you getting harrassed. I had a choice, and it was a damn easy one. but I still had it and you, personally, have like, negative blame because you were being harassed!
And talking to me? jeez you are allowed to talk to your coworkers. you're allowed to talk to the friends of your friends, you're allowed to just. talk to people if they want to talk. I get wanting to keep your head down, you don't want to get hurt. But circumstance isn't something that's anyone's fault, except the nebulous entity that likes stories I guess. BUT absolutely not YOUR FAULT. You don't owe me a damn thing.
As much as I want this to work out, I want you to come because you have good reasons. not because you 'owe me'
and if you're really worried about having a choice in this, about your involvement with other people how about this? want to be friends? open offer no strings attached, no penalties for saying no.
And talking to me? jeez you are allowed to talk to your coworkers. you're allowed to talk to the friends of your friends, you're allowed to just. talk to people if they want to talk. I get wanting to keep your head down, you don't want to get hurt. But circumstance isn't something that's anyone's fault, except the nebulous entity that likes stories I guess. BUT absolutely not YOUR FAULT. You don't owe me a damn thing.
As much as I want this to work out, I want you to come because you have good reasons. not because you 'owe me'
and if you're really worried about having a choice in this, about your involvement with other people how about this? want to be friends? open offer no strings attached, no penalties for saying no.